How do i get him to see.. that im liget?
in my boyfriends last relationship he was hurt, so now he has trust issues. So far we’ve been great and he’s perfect and in our still young relationship… we think we may have potential for more than just bf and gf. But, he doesn’t trust me with other males and it bothers me.. so if i could get some advice.. i love him and i dont want to lose him.. please 
and its not that i’m chilling with dudes i dont know, they’re guys that are my friends.. the few dudes i trust around here other than him.
Tell him how you feel and make sure he knows that you understand what he went through.
But be careful, you really don’t know if his behavior is because of the last relationship, or if it is a controlling thing he does with his women.
He needs to understand that you are fully commited to him (assuming you are). If he can’t you may want to slow things down so he can have some time to come to terms with the way his last relationship ended.
If you guys are meant to be together, things will work out! Be patient and supportive, but don’t stop living your life because of him.
November 5th, 2009 at 3:23 pm
I think you should talk to him about it and let him know that its bothering you because you need to be honest with him
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November 5th, 2009 at 4:03 pm
Tell him how you feel and make sure he knows that you understand what he went through.
But be careful, you really don’t know if his behavior is because of the last relationship, or if it is a controlling thing he does with his women.
He needs to understand that you are fully commited to him (assuming you are). If he can’t you may want to slow things down so he can have some time to come to terms with the way his last relationship ended.
If you guys are meant to be together, things will work out! Be patient and supportive, but don’t stop living your life because of him.
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November 5th, 2009 at 4:44 pm
He’s not ready for more just yet! You both need counseling.
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November 5th, 2009 at 4:55 pm
You have to talk to him. It may also take some time for him to see that he can trust you. Politely ask him not to punish you for his ex’s wrong-doings. And tell him that you and her are two completely different people. Why would you go around other guys? Would you like for him to be around other girls? He may feel threatened by them. It’s a good thing for him to be a little bit jealous because that means you mean a lot to him. Just be the best girlfriend you can be. It’ll work out!
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November 5th, 2009 at 5:32 pm
relationships won’t last if there is no trust. give him a little time, see if he snaps out of it. if he doesn’t, you shouldn’t be with him. keep in mind there is a difference between not trusting you YET, and jealousy. the first takes time, the second is is dangerous. good luck
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November 5th, 2009 at 6:16 pm
Be very open with him…both of you need to share your feelings. Slowly gain his trust without over stepping his comfort zone. Make an effort to invite him to things. And decide what is most important to you a night out with guys you dont know or the guy you really care about. Only you can make that decision
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November 5th, 2009 at 6:21 pm
Just be calm and be the person you are. But feel free to say ‘keep in mind 2 things…first I’m not her…second you chose me because I’m not her’.
And relax. He will always have a nagging worry…but don’t let that stop you from having friends.
BC
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